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Mohandas Karamchand Ghandi
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King Abdullah Al Saud
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King of Saudi Arabia

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M. Sadique

 

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SELF CONFIDENCE

 

The elephant and the sparrow were great friends. But the elephant always felt sad that he was not able to fly like his friend sparrow. So one day he asked sparrow to teach him how to fly. The sparrow agreed and led him to a cliff.

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Pulling out a feather she said: "Hold this feather tight in your mouth and flap your ears and jump down this cliff and you will fly."

 

The elephant belived her words, held the feather in his mouth and flapped his ears and behold he began to fly.  He flew over the villages, the rivers and cities and returned to his friend very happy and told her: " Your feather is very powerful. Can I have this feather because I want use it whenever I want to fly."

 

The sparrow said: "It’s not my feather. It's a hair from your tail. You only need to believe in your ability to fly. Believe in yourself and you will do miracles!"

 

There is something common in all achievers and that is self-confidence. It gives them courage to take greater risks and achieve more than they ever thought possible. Self-confidence extends their reach and makes them do miracles.

 

Self-confidence is our attitude which gives us a positive and realistic views about ourselves. It helps us to trust our abilities and believe that we can achieve what we dream.

 

Self-confident  people have realistic expectations of themselves and others. Even if some of these expectations are not met they remain positive, accept themselves and look optimistically to conquer greater heights.

 

They feel good about themselves even when others don't appreciate and acknowledge their efforts. They don't long for the approval of others and are willing to risk and do what others are scared of doing because they believe in their ability to win. Jack Welch says, "Self-confidence gives you courage and extends your reach. It lets you take greater risks and achieve far more than you ever thought possible."

 

Self-confidence is contagious. Self-confident  people instill confidence in others and gain the confidence of others. It is the secret of effective and successful living.

 

Our self-confidence is expressed in our behaviour, body language, the way we dress, talk, look, walk, what we say and think, the way we act and relate etc. A self-confident  person fears nothing, has attained the truth and lives free of error.

 

The signs of low self-confidence are feeling of guilt, skepticism, self-shame, pride, fear, pretension, laziness, unforgiving attitudes, depression, lack of trust in oneself and others, pessimism, inferiority complex, procrastination, self-doubt, passivity, submissiveness, isolation and jealousy etc.

 

Be glad there are ways by which we can build up our self-confidence.

 

1. HAVE FAITH IN YOURSELF

Our self-confidence increases when we believe in our abilities to perform and manage things. All of us have innumerable talents and potentials, only we are often not aware of many of them. To believe in our capabilities we first of all must identify what we have. For this we have to do a SWOT (strengths, weaknesses, opportunities, threats) analysis and realistically look at ourselves. We will discover that we are people of great possibilities and potentials. This faith in our abilities will boost our self-confidence. We must dwell more on our strengths and use them to negate and correct our weaknesses.

 

2. LOOK AT YOUR ACHIEVEMENTS

We can successfully do so many things. We too are great achievers. But we often brood over our failures and make our lives miserable. Think often of your successes and this will help you to increase your self-confidence. Our fear of failures prevents us from taking up anything new and challenging. Remember that we have so many qualities and abilities and that we too can be successful if we perform with all our energy, mind and heart.

3. FEEL GOOD ABOUT YOURSELF

No one can make us feel inferior without our permission. To boost our self-confidence first of all we must feel good about ourselves. The secret of all successful and happy living is to love oneself. When I am unhappy with myself I see unhappiness everywhere and I make all those around me unhappy. I must accept myself and feel good about the way I am, the way I look, my colour, my size, my shape and believe that the world can't be same if I am not there. Enjoy yourself once in a while by joining your friends for a night out, enjoying a good meal, going for a movie, playing some games etc. Laugh and forget yourself and enjoy some moments and run away from your work and stress. Such activities can boost your self- confidence.

 

4. FIX CHALLENGING GOALS

Goals can do miracles in our lives. Greater the goals greater is our self-confidence. We should have both small goals and big goals. The achievement of small goals will give us enough enthusiasm and self- confidence to run towards bigger and more challenging goals. We must think positively about our abilities to achieve our goals and reward ourselves when we achieve them.

 

5. BRING IN COMMITMENT AND PASSION

Our self-confidence depends on the degree of our commitment to a cause. If we are mediocre and half-hearted the result will also be same. We must commit ourselves to success and become passionate about what we do. Our commitment is expressed in our eagerness and desire to learn and develop new skills, knowledge and talents. When we are more prepared with commitment, knowledge and skills to do a thing we become more confident.  Read more about in 'Be Positive' page...

 

Believe in yourself, have confidence in yourself and you will indeed do miracles.

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Quotes for the Season: Willpower

 

Strength does not come from physical capacity. It comes from an indomitable will.  Mahatma Gandhi

 

The more things you do, the more you can do. Lucille Ball

 

If you think you can do it, or you think you can't do it, you are right.  Henry Ford

"A goal is not always meant to be reached, it often serves simply as something to aim at." Bruce Lee

Every accomplishment starts with the decision to try. A Proverb

 

Don't wait until everything is just right. It will never be perfect. There will always be challenges, obstacles and less than perfect conditions. So what. Get started now. With each step you take, you will grow stronger and stronger, more and more skilled, more and more self-confident and more and more successful Mark Victor

 

Really great people make you feel that you, too, can become great. Mark Twain (So read their biography)

 

M.Sadique

Hello and Welcome to my Online World.  I am M Sadique, an Indian national from Kerala - 'The God's Own Country' - who seeks his fortune in Middle East since June 2002, especially in Dubai; where I think my education, experience, commitment, and dedication have some significant role here along with the rapid growth of this region.

 

I started my overseas career in Dubai as a Front Office Executive in Embassy Suites Hotels in June 2002.  Resigned from this establishment as Night Auditor / Supervisor and joined at RAK therm , Ras Al Khaima in February 2005.   RAK therm the Gulf Plastic & Converting Solution, gave me a lot of hope as an Admin Officer in their factory at RAK Free Zone.

 

From August 2005, I began to work as Office Administrator at Diamond Legal Translation, Dubai UAE.  This is one of the largest translation offices, which provides Legal Assistance, Translation and Interpretation services in any language with more than 12 in-house and 20 freelance highgly qualified translators.

 

Even though I liked my job very much, a better package offer from LOOTAH GROUP OF COMPANIES Dubai and the current expensive living cost of this region compelled me to move.  Since August 2006 I have been working at Lootah Group with a vast area of duties and responsibilities like Public Relation jobs with Chamber of Commerce, Ministry of Economy & Industry and Civil Defence, Travel Coordination, H.R & Administration, Logistics, Trade Licenses,  Group’s Sales & Marketing Coordination, Assistance to Top Management etc...

 

Then I was sent to INMAA Group of Companies (a sister concern of Lootah Group) in May 2009 which is located in Republic of Djibouti with a task to implement and set up the company's Public Relation & Administration rules and regulation.  I got plenty of time to explore Eastern Africa during this period. Despite good salary packages I left Africa in January 2011.

 

Presently I am working in KAEFER Saudi Arabia from June 2011.  It is German based largest Insulation company in the world.  Hope My career would get a good boost from this organization with a lot of major and key responsibilities as Administration Officer, Recruitment Officer & Facility Manager.  I rely my thanks to all those who helped me in my career journey.

 

View of River Nila & Kuttippuram Bridge (My home town) from KTDC Restaurant at Kuttippuram

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View of Sheikh Zayed Road, Dubai - at night from Burjuman Center Office Tower, Bur Dubai.dubai 

 

A common view of Djibouti Day market near Mangala, Djibouti Citydjibouti

 

Still, if you want know more about me personally... Please click here!

 

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Friends say I read a lot.  If I can't / don’t share the ideas I get from what I read, what is the outcome of my readings?  That is why I want to share what I read, what I learn, what I experience, through my site. That is why I spend my leisure time to build and maintain a website like this.

 

It is for you…. For my readers only! 

 

Here you will find exceptional and extra-ordinary articles about Power of Positive Thinking, Career Help, Funny moments, Health Factors, My Love Corner, Pictures and whatever may come across my mind.  I would try my best to keep things interesting for my readers.    I will share the ideas I read.  Since those ideas helped me a lot in my day to day life I hope those will be helpful to you too.

 

I may share my interest in Sports, Travel, Martial Arts and Photography too.

 

Click the navigation buttons on the top of any page for more interesting materials in this site.  The site will be updated regularly with new pictures and articles.

 

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